Is your internal GPS telling you it’s time to change your career direction? Is it saying “Recalculate! Recalculate!” but leaving you stranded at the crossroads, failing to provide any further instruction?
If so, it can feel overwhelming, daunting, and confusing.
Uncertainty is uncomfortable. It’s natural to wish for some kind of roadmap to guide us through a process of change.
It makes sense that we feel this way. To become a physician, we had every step mapped out for us. Yes, it was quite a climb, but even Everest has a summit and there is one way up. If you don’t give up and make it to the top, you win. There is guaranteed employment, a career with status, and a paycheck.
There is a sense of security in such a well-trodden path where the finish line is visible before you even start. However, as our high physician burnout rates reveal, there is no guarantee of happiness. There is no certainty that the rules of engagement won’t change or that expectations will be met.
The shifting sand at the top of the seemingly sturdy staircase has left many considering other options. Instead of using the staircase that guided us, we now have to create our own path.
If we were wired like Lewis and Clark, we wouldn’t have gone into medicine. We’d be bushwhacking with Sacajawea by our side, discovering new lands – not practicing evidence based medicine.
But in spite of our predilections, we may find ourselves staring into a great expanse of non-clinical career terrain, wondering where even to take the first step?
Since we don’t have the prefab staircase outside of traditional practice, we have to use a different approach. Siri had the right idea. We need to use our internal GPS. We need to be able to listen to ourselves and hear our own guidance.
The connections may be a bit rusty if we’ve had to push down that inner voice in service of our career. It may take time to start hearing our true inner voice and what we need and want. When we start to listen, we might be confused by the presence of two voices, one coming from fear-based thinking (The False Self) and the other coming from trust-based thinking (The True Self). Here are some identifying characteristics to distinguish the two:
The False Self – fear-based and self-doubting
- Sees problems rather than possibility
- Jumps to the “What if’s” – what could go wrong
- Is accompanied by anxiety
- Sells your abilities short
- Has to see all the steps before starting
The True Self – confident and trusting
- Focuses on possibilities rather than problems
- Is able to imagine success
- Creates a sense of calm internally
- Does not over or underestimate your abilities
- Is comfortable taking steps without having all the answers
How do we turn up the volume on the True Self and mute the False self?
- Start noticing anxious, fear-based thoughts. Write these down and note the frequency.
- Look at the fears objectively and see if they make rational sense.
- Take stock of all you have already accomplished and the challenges you have met.
- Give yourself permission to accept whatever feelings you are having. Get curious about their origin, rather than judging them.
- Practice mindfulness or meditation techniques to help quiet and train the mind so it is not so reactive.
- Do things you enjoy and love. This will awaken the heart, which is part of the internal GPS
- Believe in the value of your individual uniqueness. Embrace your path and don’t worry if it doesn’t look like anyone else’s.
Our Internal GPS = an awakened heart + rational, non fear-based thinking
To get started on your career transformation, you don’t need to enter a specific destination into your GPS. You can start with a commitment you make to yourself. It can be a simple statement such as:
“I want to enjoy my work.”
“I want my work to be fulfilling.”
“I want to have quality family time.”
“I want to make a difference in a way that is meaningful.”
“I want to use my creativity.”
“I want to use my brain more and be challenged.”
Your internal GPS will start to work on the initial steps, and as you gain more clarity, keep refining the destination. Staircase or no staircase, it’s OK to “recalculate” so you end up in the right place – for you.
Source: Doctor's Crossing